i honestly couldn't say, but i wonder how many problems in marraiges today 'would not be problems' if the sex life between the two people was awesome and open etc.

Like would the piddly things man and woman fight about even be issues if the sex life was fresh, inventive, etc. and both were interested.

as for me, its not like i am tired of what i got by any stretch. its just that its kind of like you just want more, your appetite is what is big. can't have it though. it's like the chinese buffet. you can't overdo it.

After 23 years together, the Mrs. and I still get it on o.k. Not all strait people become celebate after 5 years or so.

Although I would really at times like to try thing with other women.

Perhaps I should become a Muslim and get 72 Virgins for blowing myself up or something. instead of a Chinese buffet maybe a Packistani buffet?

Chris

I don't believe monogamy is natural. As a society, we have tried to enforce it for millenia, and it isn't working. IMO, a lot of straight couples just become unbelievably fat, stop looking after themselves and sit in front of the TV because they have grown bored of each other sexually. Rather than opening a can of worms about threesomes, swinger's clubs or 'Don't Ask, Don't Tell Alternate Fridays," they just bloat out and give up on sex. It is easier to say,"she won't have sex with me because I have a beer gut and haven't cleaned my toenails in 6 months," rather than admit you are just boring in bed.

Sex is waaaay too much fun to be left to amateurs. Then there is porno, which raises (no pun intended) people's expectations way too much. I was the chauffeur at my (now ex) brother-in-law's stag party. I drove 8 drunken straight guys to a stripper bar (my Caprice was a 9 passenger, boy did it get a work out that night!). I remember watching the ladies bumping and grinding on stage and thinking to myself, "My sister looks nothing like that. This is soooo cruel to Brian."

Gay relationships have a better chance of survival when they are open and honest with each other about their sexual expectations. For straight people, it seems like it is just too taboo to even mention. The trouble is, if one of the partners manages to hold onto their looks, they inevitably will stray. I guess 'threesomes' are more complicated for straight people because, obviously, one of the partners has to either be bisexual, or at least put up with the concept of 'it's your turn, honey.' I would bet half the marriages that break up could have been saved if the couple talked about 'opening' the relationship - or at least building a decent dungeon in the basement.

...and your right, monogomy isn't natural. I practice it because it is a comfortable situation for the Mrs. and I, but it is not what is built into the male hard wiring.

Chris

You're a horny little bastard.....aren't you?

You have no idea how excited my BF is to have the Roadmaster complete. I still have the air matress that fit the bed of the Avalanche.... it fits in the back of the Roadmaster as well. He's already been pricing out the cost of tinting the rear windows.

that reminds me... I have to call about getting the rear air shocks replaced..... brb

Glad you got the Roadmaster on the road...

I won't come a knockin if the Roadmaster is a' rockin'....

Chris

I didn't know we had a Rolling Stones smiley

Edited March 10, 200818 yr by ZL-1

HA...the farm chicks aren't so much my style. I think NDSU has changed a lot since your day. There is still the S&S crowd, but a large majority of the kids who come up here now are from the Minneapolis suburbs and want to go to a good, decently sized college that isn't the U. Once they actually get to Fargo, they usually regret there decision, with the bitter cold winds and absolute lack of hills and trees. Most of them still stay though. Even though I am a farm kid, I don't hang out with that crowd much at all. Belt buckles and cowboy hats look ridiculous anyway.

oh, i liked the mpls chicks /set too. the variety was nice.

You have no idea how excited my BF is to have the Roadmaster complete. I still have the air matress that fit the bed of the Avalanche.... it fits in the back of the Roadmaster as well. He's already been pricing out the cost of tinting the rear windows.

that reminds me... I have to call about getting the rear air shocks replaced..... brb

How are people gonna peak in and watch if you tint the windows?

How are people gonna peak in and watch if you tint the windows?

that doesn't sound like my problem :AH-HA_wink:

...and your right, monogomy isn't natural. I practice it because it is a comfortable situation for the Mrs. and I, but it is not what is built into the male hard wiring.

Chris

I practice serial monogamy.